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Old 07-04-2022, 04:27 PM
 
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I'm asking as a single guy in his 30s. I hear everyone marries young in KS, so wondering how bad it actually is. Another consideration is that I'm a brown-skinned guy and I get mixed reports on the racism within Wichita. So I wanted to ask the people actually living there how the situation is, dating wise. I'll also add that I'm a person that would be looking more for a relationship than just casual hookups, as people are generally one of two types of daters in that regard.

 
Old 07-05-2022, 10:52 PM
 
Location: Wichita, Kansas
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I'm asking as a single guy in his 30s. I hear everyone marries young in KS, so wondering how bad it actually is. Another consideration is that I'm a brown-skinned guy and I get mixed reports on the racism within Wichita. So I wanted to ask the people actually living there how the situation is, dating wise. I'll also add that I'm a person that would be looking more for a relationship than just casual hookups, as people are generally one of two types of daters in that regard.
The dating scene here in Wichita is not good for us. Most people do marry young and everyone here sticks with their own kind.
 
Old 07-06-2022, 07:29 PM
 
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The dating scene here in Wichita is not good for us. Most people do marry young and everyone here sticks with their own kind.
What do you mean, sticks with their own kind? And is there an area where more singles hang out?
 
Old 07-06-2022, 07:47 PM
 
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What do you mean, sticks with their own kind? And is there an area where more singles hang out?
All the women here only date White men. They are not open to dating men of color like myself. I don't know of any area where more singles hang out here in the Wichita area.
 
Old 07-07-2022, 12:34 PM
 
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All the women here only date White men. They are not open to dating men of color like myself.
Is Wichita that racist in the dating scene? I've heard mix reports about this. Are most white women there really only into white guys?
 
Old 07-07-2022, 06:34 PM
 
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Is Wichita that racist in the dating scene? I've heard mix reports about this. Are most white women there really only into white guys?
I think it is racist. Unfortunately I only see White women with White guys everywhere I go. I just feel that people here are not into trying new things.
 
Old 07-09-2022, 12:17 PM
 
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On the surface it seems underwhelming.

But if you get in with the right social circle, it is HOT,HOT,HOT!!!
 
Old 07-13-2022, 11:50 AM
 
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On the surface it seems underwhelming.

But if you get in with the right social circle, it is HOT,HOT,HOT!!!
I'll have to take your word for it. It seems pretty bad from what I heard so far.
 
Old 08-25-2022, 06:11 PM
 
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I'll have to take your word for it. It seems pretty bad from what I heard so far.
It is really really good but yeah it used to be better.



When The CHALET closed, Wichita lost a great dating and hook up spot!

I miss it!!
 
Old 09-03-2022, 10:10 AM
 
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It is really really good but yeah it used to be better.



When The CHALET closed, Wichita lost a great dating and hook up spot!

I miss it!!
Where do people meet now? Mostly online? Its not that I'm a super picky people, especially since I'm now in my 30s in the dating arena.
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