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Old 12-18-2015, 03:14 PM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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We've had this conversation in different forms before but i like this article.

9 things this adoptive mom would like everyone to know.
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Old 12-18-2015, 06:40 PM
 
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We've had this conversation in different forms before but i like this article.

9 things this adoptive mom would like everyone to know.
That was awesome. Thanks for sharing.
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Old 12-20-2015, 10:19 PM
 
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We've had this conversation in different forms before but i like this article.

9 things this adoptive mom would like everyone to know.
Loved this! Especially the part about not wanting to chitchat with everyone who's curious about the child's story. People are very openly curious, wanting personal details about the "real" parents. Now I just give them "the look", which stops it.
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Old 12-21-2015, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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Loved this! Especially the part about not wanting to chitchat with everyone who's curious about the child's story. People are very openly curious, wanting personal details about the "real" parents. Now I just give them "the look", which stops it.
I learned to say "Their histories are their own to share or not." and leave it at that.
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Old 12-21-2015, 05:50 PM
 
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I learned to say "Their histories are their own to share or not." and leave it at that.
Well said, no kudzu.
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Old 12-22-2015, 10:24 AM
 
Location: East TX
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Fantastic and refreshing article.
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