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Originally Posted by Clemencia53
not true.
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I think you are partially correct here.
Assume you are going on an unaccompanied remote tour. Let’s say Korea for 12 months.
You absolutely can bring your dependents, plus you will get OHA for whatever the location is that your dependents have declared their home. So the cost of living is covered if you want to park your dependents off base in Korea.
If memory serves, I think you do have to pay out of pocket for the dependent plane tickets, though.
But the negatives will be many.
1) If you have any school age children they are not guaranteed a DOD school slot. They may have to go to school off base at an international school, and the member will have to pay out of pocket.
2) Dependent jobs are few and far between. It’s very possible the dependent will not be able to find valid employment.
3) Health care and dental may be very limited and only able to be gotten off base, so you would need International Tricare SOS, which may mean deductibles, etc.
So to sum up, if you do not have any children, and the spouse is very healthy and not likely to need much health care, plus is ok not working, then that would make sense to bring a spouse with you on an unaccompanied.
The military will try to discourage you, and the vast majority of people will not even think about bringing dependents. But they can’t stop you in most cases if you are determined to bring them.
But I’m not sure how this applies to 29 Palms? Isn’t that a regular CONUS base where families can come? I’m not sure, never been there.
One thing I want to add is that I have seen many spouses and kids go back and stay with mom and dad/ grandma and grandpa when the service member is deployed or at extended training for a few months.
Lastly, I have talked to a few Marines and they despised 29 Palms. Ridiculously hot, middle of nowhere, tough training conditions.