well lets take a step back.
If you are motivated to post 7 things you dont like or dont understand about someone you took out for Froyo last Friday payday... dont ask her out again.
You should be giddy about 7 things you "do get" about each other.
but -
1. writing skills of a 6th grader: watch some old episodes of the TV show "Are you smarter than a 5th grader?" There are some 6th graders who are demonstrably smarter and more coherent than Vice President Kamala Harris (or Joe Biden) (or Donald Trump) (or AOC) (or even this forum poster, me right here) take your pick.
Someone can be "functionally illiterate" (atrocious speller) and still be an "astounding success" in life and love and business and arts and sports and politics. Or a failure - depends on how you measure the value of other people.
- getting lost or late for a date: who hasnt done that?
- asking random questions: that's my specialty
- ask me what side of town I live on? I might be new in town and I dont know how YOU define "the sides"
I might say
'not sure; but def the wrong side of the tracks' or 'in a VAN down by the RIVER'
- changed her phone number because she said "someone was calling her saying weird stuff."
"Hello, trying to reach you about your expired auto warranty" = robospam - sounds reasonable to me.
you casually in conversation ask 'is this mental illness?'
number one, even if you are board-certified psychiatrist, I dont think you can diagnose mental illness from a couple of txts, reported 4th hand in a forum post.
None of what you posted sounds like mental illness. She may simply be sloppy or lazy, or an airhead with a double digit IQ. There are silly 16 year olds and weatherbeaten 86 year olds who talk exactly like her.
if you really want to see mental illness, and how the thought processes and gaps and inconsistencies in mood, memory and cognition look like,
I recommend Youtuber Mark Laita's channel "Soft White Underbelly". I've followed Mark's work since the pandemic, and he was just last week's guest on Joe Rogan.
TRIGGER WARNING though: Mark's content and subject matter is heart-and-gut wrenching true stories. After finishing some interviews, I say
"There but for the Grace of God, I go..."
https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/there...ce_of_God_go_I