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Old 03-15-2019, 09:42 AM
 
Location: SF/Mill Valley
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Like many other alleged "victims" in society, childless people are attention seekers. If you were content with your choices, you would not need to justify it to anyone.
Judgemental much? To imply all childless people are attention-seeking (or justifying anything) is absurd.

 
Old 03-15-2019, 09:49 AM
 
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Like many other alleged "victims" in society, childless people are attention seekers. If you were content with your choices, you would not need to justify it to anyone.
What?? I'm sure *some* childless people are attention seekers just like *some* parents are attention seekers. Not everyone who is childless thinks they are a victim or seeks attention.

Seems like you're the type of judgemental person the OP is talking about.
 
Old 03-15-2019, 09:57 AM
 
Location: equator
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I've never sensed any "stigma" ever in my life. Single or married. Maybe some wistful envy of the carefree life of no kids.

I felt it was my duty to make up for my over-procreating siblings: they had 4, I had none. Duty done!
 
Old 03-15-2019, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Beautiful Utah!
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I think this stigma only exists is in small southern towns. I used to live in one, and people thought it was bizarre that I was single (at the time), never married before, and childless - and mind you I was only in my late 20s lol. I specifically would only get serious dating women who did not want to have kids and would've had no problem staying single indefinitely otherwise. Fast forward to now, my fiance and I are in our early 30s and still do not want kids. We know multiple single people and couples around our age and older who are also childless, but part of that is we're currently living in a decent size metro. We also have many friends who do have children. If there's still a stigma against us....it would be from people who don't matter in the first place.
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What?? I'm sure *some* childless people are attention seekers just like *some* parents are attention seekers. Not everyone who is childless thinks they are a victim or seeks attention.

Seems like you're the type of judgemental person the OP is talking about.
Agreed, what a dumb over-generalization.
 
Old 03-15-2019, 10:13 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Like many other alleged "victims" in society, childless people are attention seekers. If you were content with your choices, you would not need to justify it to anyone.
Whatever man.

Childless people are "attention seekers" has got to be one of the silliest statements I've have ever read on CD, member since 2007.

LOL...
 
Old 03-15-2019, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Beautiful Utah!
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Whatever man.

Childless people are "attention seekers" has got to be one of the silliest statements I've have ever read on CD, member since 2007.

LOL...
Methinks that poster is butthurt over their own life decisions...
 
Old 03-15-2019, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Like many other alleged "victims" in society, childless people are attention seekers. If you were content with your choices, you would not need to justify it to anyone.

What?? That's ridiculous....
 
Old 03-15-2019, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Whatever man.

Childless people are "attention seekers" has got to be one of the silliest statements I've have ever read on CD, member since 2007.

LOL...


 
Old 03-15-2019, 10:48 AM
 
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Certain women tend to look down their nose on single, childless women but who cares? Live your life the way you want. Stop worrying about what other people think!!
 
Old 03-15-2019, 10:52 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Certain women tend to look down their nose on single, childless women but who cares? Live your life the way you want. Stop worrying about what other people think!!
Certain women tend to look down their noses on single women with kids but who cares? Live your life the way you want. Stop worrying about what other people think!!

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